I wanted to answer this question in person because I have talked to MANY men who are SO awakened and if didn't want to offend them. The thing is that the men are really staying undercover. However, I have many, many men on my mailing list from the Netherlands. In fact, the Netherlands is one of my main fans. My suggestion to you is to be open about your awakening. I KNOW that you will find some wonderful men who want to talk about what is happening, but don't know where to do it, except via the Internet.
My suggestion to you, and basically to ALL women, is to look into a man's eyes and aura of a man to see if he is awakening. Then, in the way that women in a happy relationship have learned to talk to a man, start a conversation about the "possibility" of living in a higher frequency of reality. My husband and teenaged grandson, who live with us sometimes, feel there is more to "achieve" in the 3D, and are not open to ascension conversations. My husband used to ask for my reference when I talked about my spirituality. Then one day I said in a VERY firm manner, "I have a PhD in psychology and am an avid researcher. I research everything I say and do. Do I ask you for the resources of what you see on the TV News or read what the 3D scientists say?" He has not asked that question since.
The third dimension has been a patriarchal age, but the fifth dimension is beyond polarities and is androgynous in its ruling. We the women of this period of great change need to find, live and use our Power Within to create the much-needed balance of masculine and feminine so that we can smoothly make the transition/transmutation into fifth dimensional New Earth. We can create this balance by embracing our own masculine energy and making it safe for the men around us to embrace their own feminine energy.
In the third dimension men held the power, women held the love and wisdom was largely non-existent. We can see in our changing world how women are becoming more openly powerful and men are becoming more openly loving. As we transmute into the our Multidimensional SELF, we all, men and women, can connect with our highest expressions of our own, innate Wisdom, Power and Unconditional Love.
We are going HOME and Home is where we have always been for Home is a not a place. Home is a frequency of reality!